What I’ve Learned~

Posted on November 24, 2006 by c3sla-v.
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I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I’ve learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.

I’ve learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life.

I’ve learned that just because someone doesnt love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that just because your not together now doesn’t mean it wasn’t meant to be. Now is just not your time

I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.

I’ve learned that although the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value when overly used.

I’ve learned that love is not for me to keep, but to pass on to the next person I see.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.

I’ve learned that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes by people who don’t even know you.

I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.

I’ve learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life, but who you have in your life that counts.

I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I’ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.

I’ve learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.

I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don’t know how to show it.

I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I’ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I’ve learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love.

I’ve learned that no matter how many friends you have, if you are their pillar, you will feel lonely and lost at the times you need them most.

I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon.

I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch - holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.

I’ve learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people that’s important. It’s what they do about it.

I’ve learned that it’s a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for ourselves.

I’ve learned that you can keep going long after you think you can’t.

I’ve learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I’ve learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I’ve learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I’ve learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I’ve learned that making a living is not the same as making a life.

I’ve learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I’ve learned that if you want to cheer yourself up, you should try cheering someone else up.

I’ve learned that you can make someone’s day by simply sending them a little card.

I’ve learned that mental stimulation is the way to a person’s heart.

            I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.

           I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one

Thoughts About –>

Posted on November 21, 2006 by c3sla-v.
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Love is when a stunning woman, a stranger, walks into the room and you look over to the one you’re with, the one you’ve shared many conversations and memories with. You look at her and can’t wait to be alone so that you can hold her in your arms. That is when love becomes so much more then infatuation.

I know I’m in love when I feel like the one I’m with was made for me by God himself. They’re designed to be your other half and you question everything in your life that has every happened up until the point you meet them and everything in your life changes. Your every sense is heightened as if you’re intoxicated with this feeling of total bliss! You’ll know when it’s real.

You know you’re in love when there is no hesitation in expressing yourself. When you feel you can share anything and everything. When you are not anxious about making a commitment. Mostly, you don’t feel the need to look around for greener pasture. You don’t think that maybe the next man you meet may be better. You are willing to check this relationship out…see where it goes. A crush or an infatuation doesn’t last long — it’s not satisfying and doesn’t usually turn into a long-term relationship.

I know I’m in love when I feel an overwhelming sense of complete surrender and awe for another person and a feeling of completeness when we’re together — and incompleteness when we’re apart. Real love can only be achieved through the test of time and mutually getting to know each other. I don’t think real love is ever a one-way street. A crush or infatuation is a feeling of desire for a person based on my fantasy of what could be, should be, or might be, but not necessarily what is.

When you are in love you will just know it. There is no formula or logic to love. You just feel it in your heart, your mind, and your soul. The feeling is something you can’t describe but can arise at any moment, triggered by a memory, a word or a thought of that special person. The difference between a crush/infatuation and real love is that a crush is someone you may forget about during the course of a day/week/month. Someone you may think of a few moments from time-to-time that you can do fun things with such as dates, dinner, and movies. A real love is someone that you cannot live without, someone who is constantly on your mind, day in and day out. It’s someone you can’t wait to talk to next. Someone who you can’t wait to see for whatever reason!

Being in love is like an anchor of reason and romance living in balance. Unlike a crush or infatuation, love is comforting as it settles from the spiking highs and lows. Love is a condition of the heart and mind. Love is understanding the "why" behind your acceptance. Love is warm.

Wayne Dyen : " Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you."

Recalling: Someone

Posted on November 10, 2006 by c3sla-v.
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what if you’re asked to give something tangible? Something that smells like, sounds like, feels like, looks like… Though the rest is still unknown, how much it matters to me how it feels to be on the other side. To be the scent that I smell, to be the subtle hum to my ears, to be the breeze that sweeps leaves unto my steps, to be the fog of a shadow before me. What is it like to be on the other side, to look like there’s always sunshine after the rain, to feel like everyday is to think about someone, to live like there’s a reason to look forward to, to have faith that every tear has a reasonable depth, to believe that every star sleeps next to our dreams, to be the one to look unto the sky and see a face that to the world means nightfall, but to you means the world. What does it feel to be content of all the things we know, by just being on the other side- to be the one to love and to know what it feels like to look after someone, to care for someone, to believe that there is someone like . . . me who all along, sits here, and doesn’t know a thing about all those things we think that exist. We are only barren, struck, hoping that someday they will unravel that what we knew all along… was after all, for realz.

Featuring:

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Artist: Lifehouse
Album: No Name Face
Title: Somewhere In Between

I can’t be losing sleep over this, no I can’t
And now I can not stop pacing
Give me a few hours, I’ll have all this sorted out
If my mind would just stop racing

Cause I cannot stand still
I can’t be this unsturdy
This cannot be happening

This is over my head but underneath my feet
Cuz by tomorrow morning I’ll have this thing beat
And everything will be back to the way that it was
I wish that it was just that easy

Cuz I’m wating for tonight
Then waiting for tomorrow
And I’m somewhere in between
What is real, and just a dream

What is real, and just a dream
What is real, and just a dream

Would you catch me if I fall out of what I fell in
Don’t be surprised if I collapse down at your feet again
I don’t want to run away from this
I know that I just don’t need this

Cause I cannot stand still
I can’t be this unsturdy
This cannot be happening

Cuz I’m wating for tonight
Then waiting for tomorrow
And I’m somewhere in between
What is real, and just a dream
What is real, and just a dream
What is real, and just a dream

Could it Be

Posted on November 9, 2006 by c3sla-v.
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When you finally see his imperfections as part of what completes him, of what makes him even wonderful and gives you more reason to love him for all that he is without having to change any part of him, any aspect or any way that defines him… then it must be..

There are also other priorities, other friends, new opportunities, new people to come your way… But falling in love is stopping at the moment and everything else fades on the background. What would matter would only be the person you love as if it was one of those freeze frames in movies that generate a tableu. It’s that special moment when you hear bells ringing or maybe the songs that gives you chills. It’s that moment wherein you forget everything else. And the best thing is it can last for as long as you stay there.

When you walk, a soul seems to chase you and you realized it was the thoughts of him that keeps the breeze blowing. And when you look at how the sun lights for hours without fading for the whole afternoon, it reminds you of him being there watchful and ever present without having to see him, without having to touch him. And when you wake up the next day, he’d fill your mind and start your day. He’ll move your day in every way. And later when you go to sleep, you know that he’ll be in your dreams…

~LIGHT and Everything Else Held Constant~

Posted on November 6, 2006 by c3sla-v.
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And so there was light. Or was it the incomming train? A gun point bullet’s fierce motion? Or that flicker of a far off castaway, trying to be heard but remains star-like, barren among the black and blue sky. So was there ever, that kind of light? Light, in the notion, of illumina. Similar to the light that perks on friend’s faces when they get hinted of their personal interest. Same light that relieves itself at the end of the night when we are ready to drift for another twilight. Is it dreams that go along side LIGHT. That perhaps light, to some, could be seeing life for the first time. While to others, light is the lantern at the cemetery. Light could be the passion that makes one walk on the most stumbling, deceiving places. Light makes us see through even the dark, most unconceivable and fathomless places. Like, the subterranea or the place where there is the dying of the light. Light itself, when dies, is exchanged with a dimmer perhaps- temporal lighting. Might be of a the lamp, the house flourescent, the star, the shimmer on someone’s eye… or on a tear on someone’s grief. Light, will always be existent. Not that there was light, but perhaps, there is light and will always have as such. For as long as there is something comprehensible, despite darkness or the stillness of the night… Light is a promise that comes even in the form of the dark places or illuminated graces. Light is there as hope, as the end that comes undone. Light, in the form of people, of places, of blazes and more. Light, is so endless, that we see them even when our eyes are close. And we feel them even when we feel senseless. There is light even in our mere thought without having to feel anything and without having to see anything. Light is there without the senses even when we are repulsive and unbelieving on it. It will shine, and it will resemble so many more things. Thats why to some, they see it as some inspiration. The light that sees through and shines in time with or without our consent, with or without our knowing. It is there, and if shall ask how it got there… then we will know…